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• 12:13 Had a dream I was trying to create a Sims character named Tribeca. #
• 15:34 @hodgman Wait, why would I bow down to the dragon from "Tik-Tok of Oz"? #
• 15:36 @Clamanity You mean the BAD day he existed? #
• 15:38 @kittysneezes You mean "Tofutti Cuties" isn't a burlesque show for vegetarians? #
• 15:40 @JaredofMo AND he played a Jewish guy despite being uncircumcised! #
• 16:07
  @poisonyoulove They wouldn't be doing much ho-ho-ho-ing after that, would they? #
• 16:10 @NowIsStrange That lesbian lawyer lady was totally slumming it, too. #
• 16:10 @InBloomers To work and exploit the booming music scene? #
• 16:11 @NowIsStrange Well, it's something to talk about, isn't it? #
• 16:12 Last I checked, love really ISN'T all you need. Food, water, and shelter are also necessary. #
• 16:15 @neiltyson @clamanity Not as much as Torpenhow Hill bothers me. #
• 16:19 @InBloomers No, you just need to expand your definition of "celebrity." #
• 16:19 @InBloomers Probably. Ask Mr. Owl. #
• 18:40 @Clamanity Help, help! A herrible hoffilump! #
• 21:16 When I first heard of "Once Upon a Mattress," I wondered how a high school could get away with such a raunchy-sounding musical. #

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Writer's Block: Go it alone

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Well, this is several questions in one, isn't it? Let me try to break it down. Yes, I think society puts too much pressure on people to be in relationships and/or have children, especially the latter. Not wanting to have kids is treated as an anomaly, I guess because most people have a biological urge to reproduce. But that aside, it's actually a little bizarre, as having a kid means putting in a lot of work, and having responsibility for another human being. Well, unless you're a crappy parent, which is the route a lot of people prefer to take. I do not care at all for the term "child-free," which just seems to be reinforcing the idea that not wanting to have children is some kind of movement, rather than simply a choice some people make. Most of what I've heard about people who actually apply the label "child-free" to themselves is rather negative, like bitching about the children themselves. I'm not "child-free" because I don't want kids any more than I'm "straight edge" because I don't do recreational drugs. Defining yourself by what you DON'T do is really just buying into the other side's rhetoric, isn't it? It's like how the obsession with "purity" and saving yourself for marriage is really just another sexual fetish. I have to say that I really don't get the appeal of having children, aside from the ability to share stuff you enjoy with them, and even that doesn't always work out. That said, I'm not going to pretend my opinion is best for everybody. But THINK about it first, okay? Wanting a child is one thing, and feeling that you HAVE to have one is quite another.

As for the last question, no, I don't think it's worse during the holidays. Not in general, anyway; I guess it could be in some specific families. In fact, I think those of us without kids get more of a break in this season. I do think the emphasis on family makes it all the worse for people who don't have close family relations, but I've heard that the rumors about the suicide rate being higher around the winter holidays aren't actually true.