I learned from an article on www.thepenn.org that the one who killed himself in Breezedale was a man, Mrs. Sarah Sutton's brother William, via revolver in 1894. He did it in his bedroom, and he's supposed to be the one haunting it, not a girl. I heard that story too.

I wish there was a more reliable way to learn things besides, "oh, I heard that... [insert urban legend here]" ;-)